To help your friend, you must find their wish first. Perhaps they e-mailed you a link or posted something on a social media site. Try those first. Otherwise, use the search box on the top of the page if you know what they wished for. You can also browse the wishes using the Wish Menu. Wishes are in alphabetical order by user. Once you've found your friend's wish, click on it's title and you're ready for the next step...